This is my favorite
Mother’s Day article. It was written by Cindy Lange-Kubick. It makes me cry
every time I read it, so I thought I should share it with all of the devoted
moms and grandmothers out there!
Here's to mothers, for
every year is their year…
This is for all the
mothers who didn't win Mother of the Year in 2015.
All the runners-up and
all the wannabes. All the mothers too tired to enter or too busy to bother.
This is for all the
mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at soccer games Friday night
instead of watching from cars, so that when their kids asked, "Did you see
my goal?" they could say "Of course, wouldn't have missed it for the
world," and mean it.
This is for all the
mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up
barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's OK,
honey, Mommy's here."
This is for the mothers
who gave birth to babies they'll never see. And the mothers who took those
babies and made them homes.
For all the mothers who
run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween costumes.
And all the mothers who
don't.
What makes a good mother
anyway? Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips? The ability to nurse a
baby, fry a chicken and sew a button on a shirt all at the same time?
Or is it heart?
Is it the ache you feel
when you watch your son disappear down the street, walking to school alone for
the very first time?
The jolt that takes you
from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2 a.m. to put your hand on the back of
a sleeping baby?
The need to flee from
wherever you are and hug your child when you hear news of a school shooting, a
fatal fire, a car accident, a baby dying?
I think so.
So, this is for all the
mothers who sat down with their children and explained all about making babies.
And for all the mothers who wanted to but just couldn't.
This is for reading
"Goodnight Moon" twice a night for a year. And then reading it again.
"Just one more time."
This is for all the
mothers who mess up.
This is for all the
mothers who taught their daughters to tie their shoes before they started
preschool. And for all the mothers who
chose Velcro instead.
For all the mothers who
bite their lips -- sometimes until they bleed -- when their 14-year-olds dye
their hair green. Who lock themselves in the bathroom when babies keep crying
and won't stop.
This is for mothers who
show up at work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their blouses and
diapers in their purses.
This is for all the
mothers who teach their sons to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.
For all the mothers who
make mental notes of their children every time they hear a siren sound or a
tire squeal or a bump in the night.
This is for all the
mothers whose heads turn automatically when a little voice calls
"Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their own offspring are at
home.
This is for mothers who
put pinwheels and Teddy bears on their children's graves.
This is for mothers whose
sons and daughters have gone astray, who can't find the words to reach them.
This is for young mothers
stumbling through diaper changes and sleep deprivation. And mature mothers
learning to let go.
For working mothers and
stay-at-home mothers. Single mothers and married mothers.
Mothers with money,
mothers without.
This is for you all. So
hang in there.
And better luck next
year, I'll be rooting for you.